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Moving Thoughts

Tuesday, April 5th, 2011

Several weeks ago my wife and I decided to move to Phoenix.

“This will be simple,” I thought. “We’ll call our Realtor, sign some papers, have nice pictures taken, empty the house, and get ourselves to the Valley of the Sun.”

The process has been almost nothing like that. Yes, we called our Realtor and yes, we signed some papers. Then we started signing checks.

I know, I know—the people buying the house are supposed to sign checks, but at the moment that’s our job.

We’ve lived in the house almost exactly eighteen years, and we’ve loved it. It is in a great neighborhood, has beautiful landscaping (we’ve made three calendars using only pictures from our yard), is in one of the best towns in America, and it has served us faithfully and well. Our friends admire it, our relatives enjoy it, and we are thankful for it.

But several weeks ago, it wasn’t ready for new residents.

Frankly, I didn’t know that, but our Realtor did. She suggested work on the house that would cost us thousands of dollars! How was that possible? We were living happily in the house every day. It was fine.

In fact structurally, safety wise, and in all major ways, it was and is fine. Why couldn’t we just sell it “as is” and let someone else do what they wanted to it?

My attitude was one of resistance. I could see no reason (more…)

Aspirations to be a rock star

Sunday, October 17th, 2010

It’s nearing Halloween, and I always think of the Charlie Brown special where everyone is excited about getting candy, and Charlie Brown says, “I got a rock.”

Rocks get a bad rap, but they aren’t all bad!  Consider this scripture:

When he came near the place where the road goes down the Mount of Olives, the whole crowd of disciples began joyfully to praise God in loud voices for all the miracles they had seen: 
”Blessed is the king who comes in the name of the Lord!”

“Peace in heaven and glory in the highest!”

Some of the Pharisees in the crowd said to Jesus, “Teacher, rebuke your disciples!”

“I tell you,” he replied, “if they keep quiet, the stones will cry out.”

So okay, maybe rocks are still considered bottom of the heap.  But are we better than a rock?

Lots of folks are quiet at church.  Maybe it’s personal preference, maybe it’s what they consider proper decorum for church.  Silence is golden, that sort of thing… But NOT when we’re praising God!  Worship is not a spectator sport!

Praising God is a good thing to do, most importantly because God is worthy!  For ourselves, focusing on God in praise helps us have a deeper knowledge and appreciation of who God is.  Praising God with other Christians helps us to articulate that praise, and appreciate God from multiple points of view.  Getting comfortable talking about God with other Christians makes it easier to talk about God with non-Christians.  And what do we think we’ll be doing in heaven, anyway?

What’s stopping you from crying out?

A Worldview from a Beautiful Place

Wednesday, May 13th, 2009

Pepperdine's Malibu campusAlong with several thousand other Christians, I spent much of last week in one of America’s most beautiful places, Malibu, California.

I was there for the annual Pepperdine Bible Lectures, a week-long series of classes, talks, singing, meetings and fellowship that is both amazing in its scope and glorious in its setting. There is content, too, but I’ll write about that in another post.

From the cafeteria patio at Pepperdine, I had a more than 200-degree panoramic view of the deep blue Pacific ocean, I was comfortable in shorts every day and every evening, and the skies were constantly clear.

But did that serve to clear my mind or cloud it? Enjoying a warm breakfast while overlooking the ocean is relaxing and inspiring, but does it make for better thinking, or does it create a warped perspective? How much — and how — does where we are impact our worldview?

A Reflection on a “One Another” Service

Monday, February 16th, 2009

In 1 Corinthians 14 Paul is finishing a section on spiritual gifts and their use in the church when he writes: “When you assemble, each one has a psalm, has a teaching, has a revelation, has a tongue, has an interpretation. Let all things be done for edification.”

There are many lessons to be learned in that simple sentence, but one idea I infer from it was that the early church — or at least the church in Corinth, which Paul had a lot to do with — shared with and learned from each other when they assembled. Most of today’s churches, including ours, are much more practitioners of assembling and being led by full time pastors/teachers, people I sometimes jokingly call “professional Christians.”

Being one of those people, I’m clearly not opposed to that. Those who have particular gifts, especially gifts of teaching, ought to use them for the building up of the body of Christ (see Ephesians 4.11ff). But we should remember that the gifts we normally see used on Sunday are not the only gifts, and that even those who do have those gifts in abundance do not have them exclusively.

And so it was, with all that in mind, that we had a “One Another” service at PACC yesterday. We sang to God and to one another, we shared our struggles and joys with one another, we prayed for one another, we served communion to one another and passed the offering basket to one another, and we taught one another. Everyone who was there participated actively in at least one way, and most participated actively in multiple ways.

Perhaps when we post this e-mail on our PACC blog, people will comment on how they felt about that particular service, but I get to tell you now. I loved it.

It was an encouragement to me to hear the lessons that people shared, whether from a personal experience, from scripture, or from a God-honoring insight. It was heart-warming for me to observe a number of small groups of Christians sharing with each other and praying for each other. It was humbling to watch parents serve communion to their children, husbands serve their wives, wives serve their husbands, and friends serve their friends. Every part of the service touched me in a positive way.

So thank you, church, those of you who were able to be there, for being the church, for building up the body of Christ and for loving one another. The tender moments, the funny moments, the thoughtful moments, the moments of celebration, all worked together for the glory of God. And he must have been pleased.

Are we all “cafeteria” Christians?

Saturday, February 7th, 2009

According to Wikipedia, “Members of the Churches of Christ believe… that the only basis for restoring Christian unity is the Bible.” Therefore, as Batsell Barrett Baxter said, “the whole movement is designed to reproduce in contemporary times the church originally established on Pentecost, A.D. 30.”

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Sounds good, eh? However, even the Churches of Christ take a cafeteria approach to Christianity, picking and choosing what Biblical practices to continue today.

Our ladies’ Bible class recently studied Acts chapter 4:

32All the believers were one in heart and mind. No one claimed that any of his possessions was his own, but they shared everything they had…. 34There were no needy persons among them. For from time to time those who owned lands or houses sold them, brought the money from the sales 35and put it at the apostles’ feet, and it was distributed to anyone as he had need.

Sounds like communism to me!

We talked about how most attempts at communism fall short of the ideal. We talked about how some practices of the Acts church might reflect their particular time and place. We talked about how their communal attitude was admirable, but not required, as a way for Christians to live.

Hey, wait a minute! I can see dismissing a Biblical practice on cultural grounds (you won’t see me wearing a hat to church), but should we be so quick to dismiss a Biblical practice just because it’s difficult? (After all, it’s been impossible to get rid of denominations, but surely that’s not what God had in mind; see v. 32 above.) I’ll agree that communal living is not required for salvation; however, what would the world be like if everyone shared as the Acts church did?

Our favorite stories are about underdogs pursuing their aspirations against all odds. If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again. Why don’t we Christians do more of that?

What Biblical ideal are you reluctant to add to your plate?

Misery Loves Company, part 1

Sunday, February 1st, 2009
Devil's Golf Course

Death Valley, CA

Misery loves company. We usually interpret this maxim to mean that people in pain* want those around them to be miserable, too. Some probably wish for that, but, more commonly, people who suffer often want only simple companionship as they endure a journey through the valley.

The other night, one friend, normally a bubbly sort, was sharing the fact that he had become depressed. So many aspects of his life that had been a source of joy and provision had suddenly fallen apart. Disappointment with a friend, loss of a job, radical changes to his responsibilities, and so on, were bringing him down emotionally and financially.

A group of his friends took him to task. They tried to get him to see the error in his thinking. They challenged him not to exaggerate. They dismissed the severity of his issues. They asked him to “count his blessings,” and then started a list for him. As if that weren’t enough, they (more…)

Good Leaders Will Make Somebody Angry

Monday, September 22nd, 2008

So, I’m hanging out at a friend’s house while I am in Vegas. I’d tell you who but what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. Anyway, this friend is moving out and told me I could pick and choose from the pile of books that was on the floor. Thinking, I’ll need something to read on the plane on my way home, I pick up The Leadership Secrets of Colin Powell.

As many of the PACC folk know about me, most of my thoughts, (Okay all of them) are things I think, conclusions I have come to after much thinking and not something I picked up in a book, unless it were the Good Book. So, I am often hesitant to say “I read in a book…” But, I’ll give it a try here. In the first chapter I came across some thoughts by Colin Powell that I thought might be worth mulling over given that PACC is in the process of choosing who will be her leaders.

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Time to Chat?

Saturday, August 30th, 2008

I’m having one of those rare weekends alone. My daughter is making new friends at a camp for happy teenagers, while my husband and son are scout camping at a black sand beach in Northern California. I enjoy these moments almost too much, burrowing into my home and tuning out the world with loud music and escapist fiction.Telephone

Email is one channel that breaks through my isolation. After following the stories on Sarah Palin, John McCain’s VP candidate, I was intrigued by a forwarded email: “25 things you might not know about McCain.” Written by the Associated Press, it was published in multiple news outlets August 28ff, 2008. Most of the insights are silly trivia, but one line grabbed me: “10. He talks to fellow prisoners of war, those with whom he shared a cell in Vietnam, almost daily.”

I like to stay in touch with friends and family, but the number of people I deliberately interact with daily is quite small. What would make a man chat with his cellmates at this frequency, so many years after they were all released? I found some clues in McCain’s 1973 description of the POW years and in this interview of McCain’s cellmate, George “Bud” Day. (more…)

Tell All the Truth, but Tell it Slant

Monday, July 21st, 2008

Ants on Moebius Strip II by EscherIf you haven’t already, go read Vivian’s post. Right now. And comment, too, because we live for comments. Anyway, the following thoughts were inspired by what she said, and it would be grossly unfair to her to start here just because mine is at the top of the pile for the moment.

Nearly two years ago, I read Why Men Hate Going to Church. It opened my eyes to several things that had been right in front of me forever, yet I hadn’t been able to “see” them before. The book made me wonder if some church practices (passive activities, sweet songs, and so on) had become unduly feminine. As I grappled with that thought (continuing to this day), I came across an oddly titled book, Jesus: Mean and Wild. I had to buy it — that characterization was so different from Jesus as I had understood him to be, yet I wondered what a “mean and wild” Jesus might look like. Confession: I tossed it on my huge TBR(ead) pile of books and didn’t read it for a long time. But I looked at it. And I talked about it. Every time I mentioned the title, I’d get that, “You’re crazy!” look. Okay, whatever. Some people don’t recognize hyperbole for what it is.

At Lewis’ suggestion, I agreed to co-teach the Sermon on the Mount with him, but I told him up front, “This is not my favorite topic. I don’t get it, and I don’t like reading lectures.” He told me, “That’s okay. You’re gonna love it when we’re done, because it’s my very favorite thing!” Okay, the gauntlet had been thrown, and I picked it up.

But I am so far from the “Bible is simple. All ya gotta do is open it and read it and do it. Done deal.” Maybe I’m just thick-headed, but a lot of times when I read the Bible, I’m like, “So? What did that mean? How am I supposed to do that?” Did Jesus really want me to pluck out my eye or chop off my hand? (Interesting how most of us do recognize the hyperbole here; at least I haven’t noticed any one-eyed, one-armed Christians running around, though I bet they have sinned through their seeing or touching.) Most of the Bible is told in stories. The stories reveal — obliquely!!! — the heart of God, his goals and purposes for people, his disappointments with their actions, his irrational love for downtrodden, ostracized, marginalized groups (like Israel). (more…)

Passing Through

Monday, July 14th, 2008

I’ve been to some amazing places on this earth, some of them highly populated and some of them extraordinarily devoid of population. Some of those places have been startlingly beautiful, some of them have contained great works of art, and some of them have been sculpted into great works of art. I consider it a blessing to both see and appreciate all of that.

But the greatest joys of life — at least for me — involve people. So I was just a little sad this afternoon as I said goodbye (temporarily, but for a while) to Sterling Stuckey and his amazing wife, Harriette, who, in passing through the Bay Area for a season, came into my life and the life of PACC and made us all better for it.

Sterling is, in some circles, kind of a famous fellow, I suppose. He might say, with a wry smile, “Oh, I don’t know about that.” But he had stopped by the church today to give me a copy of the manuscript for his latest book, African Culture and Melville’s Art, a work that will be published this year by Oxford University Press, and anyone who can get a book like that published by a major house, let alone write it, has got something going for him.

The book’s subtitle is The Creative Process in “Benito Cereno” and “Moby-Dick.” Probably not what one would call “light reading,” but I’m looking very much forward to it.

Why? Not because the title itself interests me, although it does interest me very much, but because of Sterling.

By many of the world’s standards, one might not think that Sterling and I would have much in common. But he showed up one day at PACC, and in fairly short order we learned we had three important things in common: we love creativity and the artists who created; we love to think; and we love God.

As time went on we found out that we disagreed on a few things, too, and that enriched our friendship as much as our agreements. (See “love to think,” above.) But my point is this: my life is richer because Sterling and Harriette passed this way. I hope and expect to see them again, and look forward to it.

In the meantime, my goal is simply this: to enrich the lives of those I meet, even in places where I’m just passing through.